
My father left when I was three, or so I thought.
I never saw him, never heard from him. He was a ghost my mother wouldn’t discuss. “He made his choice,” she’d say.
I believed her—until I was seven, when I found a birthday card from him in the trash. When I showed it to my mother, she told me to throw it away. “That man doesn’t get to be part of your life,” she insisted. I didn’t argue, too young to understand.
At twelve, I asked why he left. “He didn’t want us,” she replied. I stopped asking.
Years later, I got a call from a woman named Laura—my father’s wife. He had passed away. The funeral was the next day. I hesitated but went.
At the service, Laura handed me a small key. “He never stopped thinking about you,” she said. She took me to a lawyer’s office where I learned my father had tried to be part of my life, despite my mother’s resistance.
There were court documents, letters he’d written to me—unsent. He had tried. I’d never known.
Later, Laura showed me a room filled with my childhood memories—photos, clippings, even my graduation bouquet. “He hoped you’d walk through this door,” she said. I realized then he had always cared, even if he couldn’t show it.
Over time, I got to know his family—his children, who shared stories of him. I felt peace, not jealousy. I understood now that he had wanted me, and that made all the difference.
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