My Mom Thought No Man Was Good Enough For Me Until One Invited Her On A Date

 

For most of my adult life, my mother’s involvement in my decisions—especially my dating life—felt overwhelming. At 37, I thought I’d finally gained independence and privacy. But one unexpected dinner with my mom and my new boyfriend proved family dynamics and love are never predictable.

Though I’m independent—a career in art history, my own apartment, and a mature outlook—I’ve never set strong boundaries with my mom. She’s loving and protective but always quick to judge the men I date, often before dinner even begins.