The other day, my parents stopped by to drop off a belated birthday gift. I had been out of town on my actual birthday, so they wanted to celebrate once I got back. After our visit, I stood by the door as they headed out.
I watched them walk down the front steps to their car.
My dad gently held my mom’s arm, guiding her carefully down the porch. It was such a simple, ordinary moment—yet it hit me like a wave. My parents are growing old.
It wasn’t a sudden realization. They haven’t aged overnight. It’s been gradual, over years. But in that quiet instant, the truth settled in deeply.
Lately, life has been full of change. My kids are growing up and moving out. My once-busy home is quieter now. I’ve been so focused on adjusting to this new chapter that I hadn’t really stopped to see how much my parents have changed, too.
As a child, I saw my parents as unshakable. My dad was the protector—the strong, dependable one who always had a solution. My mom was the warm heart of our home, full of love and comfort. In my eyes, they were timeless.
But now, I see something else. My mom’s once-dark hair is snowy white, and she moves with more care. My dad’s steps are slower, his hair fully gray. They’re both in their mid-70s, and for the first time, it truly hit me: someday—hopefully not soon—they won’t be here anymore.
Just the thought of it brings tears to my eyes.
They’ve been my foundation. My dad is still the first person I call for advice. My mom, the first one I reach out to when I need comfort. I can’t imagine not hearing their voices, not seeing them standing at their doorway waiting for a hug.
That moment on the porch changed something in me.
It reminded me that time is precious, and the people we love won’t be here forever.
I want to spend more time with them.
I want to hear more of their stories.
I want to soak in their wisdom while I still can.
I want to make sure they know just how much they mean to me.
If you’re lucky enough to still have your parents, take a moment—really look at them. Listen. Visit. Call. Tell them you love them.
Because someday, these moments will be the ones we hold closest to our hearts.
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